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 Do you have a cat who is so frightened that
he is rarely seen? Many owners are unable to
pet, hold, or even remotely touch their very
timid cats. Here are seven trust-building
tips:
1.
Don’t intrude into his comfort zone.
Stay at a distance that keeps kitty relaxed.
2.
Create hiding places.
Create homemade tunnels out of cardboard
boxes or bags and/or use pyramid-style cat
beds.
3.
Help the cat get comfortable with
touch in a safe way.
When working with traumatized cats, I sit on
the floor, respecting the cat’s comfort
zone, and extend a toilet brush (a brand new
one, of course). The bristles on the end of
the brush are often appealing for the cat to
rub against. I also spray the bristles with
Feliway, a behavior modification
product. I hold the brush close to the
ground at arm’s length. In subsequent
sessions, I gradually decrease the space
between the two of us but always at the
cat’s pace.
4.
Use playtime. Use a fishing pole-type
toy so kitty can remain at a distance. Move
the toy in a way that simulates prey to
trigger the cat’s prey drive. No fast
motions.
5.
Use food. Instead of
free-feeding, feed on a schedule. Divide up
the portions into several small meals. Put
the food down for the cat and sit on the
other side of the room. This helps him
associate you with positive experiences.
Talk to him, using a very soft, soothing
tone. No baby talk. You can also use clicker
training to reward the cat with food each
time he makes a positive step toward you or
outside of his hiding place. If using
clicker training and you find the cat is
afraid of the sound of the clicker, put it
in your pocket to muffle the sound.
6.
Use Feliway Comfort Zone diffuser.
The product can help kitty feel more
comfortable in your home.
7.
Be patient. |
