Problem Solving & Advice by Pam Johnson-Bennett Cat Behavior Expert & Best-selling Author
A question I am often asked is “when will I know if I have too many cats?” People are usually looking for me to give a definite number such as 5, 10, or maybe 15. The truth is, for some people, two cats are too many based on things very specific to their particular living conditions. The answer is unique to each person. You have to look at:
- Your own living conditions
- Your current cat family
- Your financial situation
- Your physical and emotional abilities
- Your schedule and the demands on your time
- Your reasons for wanting to acquire multiple cats
- Your family members’ opinions and how this affects their lives
- Legal restrictions
Finding the Right Forever Home for a Cat
So many of us want to rescue every cat we see on the street or in the shelter but it doesn’t always mean that OUR home is the best alternative for that cat. Perhaps the cat you rescue from the side of the road would be better off if you dedicate your time to finding him another forever home other than yours. It’s easy to get caught up in the emotions of the moment and before you know it, that cat has found his way into your heart at the expense of the cats you already have at home.
Getting Involved in Cat Welfare the Right Way
If it turns out that you can’t take another animal into your home it doesn’t mean you can’t involve yourself in a meaningful way:
- Make a monetary donation to a shelter or animal welfare organization
- Donate items to your local shelter (most shelters have wish lists)
- Volunteer your time at the shelter
- Become a participant in fundraising events
- Do your part to educate your community
- Help find permanent or foster homes for animals
Acquiring a Cat Should be the Start of a Lifelong Relationship
The decision to add a cat to the family (whether it’s the first cat or an additional cat), should be made thoughtfully. What may initially start out as a thoughtful and caring act of kindness, may actually end up putting everyone in a tough position. Having multiple cats can add an unbelievable amount of joy to your household but it can also cause stress and heartache if done incorrectly, if you aren’t able to financially provide the care needed, or if it puts others in the family (human, feline, or canine) at risk. If you’re concerned that adding one more cat may put you, your family, your current cats, or the newcomer in an unhealthy position, then take time for careful consideration and seek the advice of your veterinarian or other professional.
Need More Information?
For more specific help on cat behavior problems in multicat homes, refer to the revised and updated edition of Cat vs. Cat by best-selling author Pam Johnson-Bennett. Pam’s books are available at bookstores and online. We’ve included links to Amazon here on our website.
If you have a question about your cat’s behavior or health, contact your veterinarian. This article is not intended as a medical diagnosis nor is it a replacement for your cat’s regular veterinary care. This article is for general information purposes only.
